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Thursday, August 26, 2010

12 New Things - new ethnic cuisines


So, my "new skill" for August was a super simple one. I love to cook, but I've always been pretty boxed in ethnically - it's pretty much American, Mexican, or Italian cuisine around here. I've been wanting to venture into trying some other ethnic tastes and broadening our palate... so tonight I checked that skill off the list, and I made Doro Wat for dinner. Doro Wat is an extremely flavorful Ethiopian stew, and although it was slightly more labor intensive than most of my go-to recipes, it's DEFINITELY going on the meal rotation as it was SUPER yummy!! I didn't get a picture of the dish, but Isaac snapped a tablescape with his Droid:




I'm feeling a little more confident and a little less terrified of trying new food "genre's"!
For the complete list of the things I'm tackling this year, click here.


The Doro Wat recipe I used was snagged from a copy of Parents magazine that came a couple of weeks ago: (We played it simple and just dined on the Doro Wat and pitas)







Doro Wat

Ingredients

Spicy Butter
1/2 lb. (2 sticks) unsalted butter
1/4 red onion, chopped
1 (1-inch) piece fresh ginger, peeled and finely chopped
1 small garlic clove, finely chopped
1 Tbs. cardamom pods, crushed with the side of a knife
3/4 tsp. fenugreek seeds
1/2 tsp. ground cumin
1/2 tsp. dried oregano
1/4 tsp. ground turmeric

Doro Wat
2 medium onions, halved and thinly sliced
4 Tbs. Spicy Butter, divided
2 tsp. kosher salt, divided
1 (2-inch) piece fresh ginger, peeled and finely chopped
2 clovesgarlic, finely chopped
1 Tbs. mild chili powder
1/4 tsp. ground cardamom
1/4 tsp. freshly ground black pepper
3 whole cloves
2 cups chicken stock or broth
1/2 cup dry red wine
3 lbs.boneless, skinless chicken thighs, cut into 1-inch pieces
Freshly squeezed juice of 1 lime
1 Tbs. chopped fresh basil
Hard-boiled eggs, peeled and quartered lengthwise, Chopped tomatoes, Lime wedges, Flatbread or whole-wheat tortillas

Directions1. For Spicy Butter, melt the butter in a medium skillet over low heat. Skim foam that rises to the top. When most of it subsides, add the remaining ingredients. Continue cooking, stirring occasionally, for 20 minutes. Strain through a fine-mesh sieve. (Can be made one week ahead and stored in the refrigerator).

2. For the Doro Wat, heat a Dutch oven (or a heavy saucepan with a lid) on medium-high heat and add the onions. Let cook undisturbed until they turn dark brown, about 4 minutes. Stir in 2 tablespoons of the Spicy Butter and a teaspoon of salt. Reduce heat to medium-low. Cook, stirring occasionally, until the onions are very tender, 15 minutes. Stir in the remaining 2 tablespoons Spicy Butter (reserve the rest for another use), ginger, and garlic. Cook 1 minute. Stir in the chili powder, cardamom, black pepper, and cloves. Cook for 5 minutes.

3. Pour in the stock and wine, bring liquid to a simmer and let mixture cook for 10 minutes or so, until the liquid is reduced by about half. Stir in the chicken and cook, stirring occasionally, until the chicken is just done but still tender, 15 to 20 minutes longer. Stir in lime juice and remaining 1 teaspoon salt. Garnish with basil. Serve with eggs, tomatoes, lime wedges, and bread for sopping up the sauce.

12 New Things



So, Sarah Mae over at Like a Warm Cup of Coffee is hosting 12 New Things; a journey in mastering new skills, where the goal is to learn a new skill every month from August to July.  I'm joining in, so here are;

My 12 New Things:

August - Prepare a new ethnic cuisine
September - Create "Easter Tree" "curriculum"
October - Knit a cowl on circular needles
November - Make natural deoderant
December - Memorize a book of the bible... exactly which one, still to be determined
January - Start learning Spanish as a family
February - Increase my photography skills
March -  Learn to make TASTY sourdough bread
April -  Make salves and toners
May - Plant a flower garden for floral arrangements
June - Hand stitched hems
July - Write a song

Two Sets of Sisters



Wednesday, August 25, 2010

Parenting and Weakness




Have you ever noticed that when we assume positions of authority it seems as if they bring out in us a "need" to be seen as strong, without fault? We're all guilty of putting people on a pedestal at times; but on the flip side, we ourselves often want to be on a pedastal in the eyes of those "following" us.

Admittedly, it would seem like we have to portray ourselves as always right and without fault to our kids in order to "boost morale"... but, the truth is - it's our weaknesses that give us strength. As parents, there is such a temptation to set ourselves up as prototypes of God... all knowing, all seeing, always right... but we aren't given a place of authority over our children because we're "like God", but rather to point them TO a righteous, holy, perfect God and their need for Him.

Example? Let's say I get angry with my kids and yell at them. I have two approaches I can take:
1) I can justify my anger. After all, I AM their mom, I KNOW better, and I'M RIGHT in my anger.
2) I can acknowledge my sin openly before my children, repent in front of them, and ask their forgiveness.
See how option 1 sets me up as a prototype of God (I won't even go into what a warped theology this would give my kids); and option 2 gives me the opportunity to point my children TO God, while modeling repentance for them?

When I am weak, He is strong.
Because parenting isn't about proving to my kids how good I am, but how good God is.

One of the best things I can do as a mother is to show my children that I am weak,  and I am a sinner... It is Christ who makes me strong. Being a good parent doesn't require perfection. Being a good parent requires a humble, broken devotion to the Redeemer that is clearly seen by our children.
This is something that my husband has taught me by example... something I'm still daily trying to remind myself of.

When I am weak,
              He is strong.
                  2 Corinthians 12:10

Monday, August 23, 2010

Courageous - the movie

Looks like this is going to be an amazing film!



Thursday, August 19, 2010

Prayer for a dear friend

My dear friend, Elizabeth, lost her husband of 8 years on Tuesday. Mike's love and passion for Christ were evident to everyone, and we all rejoice in the knowledge that he is in the presence of God; basking in the glory and love of his Father, having shed the chains of this earth, filled with awe at the holiness and glory of the Most High. Please keep Elizabeth in your prayers as she goes through this difficult time... she has lost her best friend, protector, leader, lover... I cannot even imagine the intensity of the pain she is experiencing at this time. I rejoice in knowing that Elizabeth's love and passion for her Savior is real, and that He is sovereign over all.


I came across this short video by John Piper today, and I wanted to share it here. Piper speaks to the danger American Christians face in thinking that the Christian life is a "good life". I pray that we would all grasp the seriousness of this message, cling to Christ, and pray that He strengthens us with His love.

Oh that we understand this, that we are all prepared for the sufferings which are to come: "''For it has been granted to you that for your sake you should not only believe, but suffer.' (Philippians 1:29) It's granted to you, it's given to you, it's a gift to you with a big bow that you will suffer... The purpose of God in creating the universe is to display the greatness of the glory of his grace supremely in the suffering of His Son. Will you join the Son in displaying the supreme satisfaction of the glory of grace in joining Him on the calvary road of suffering? Because there's no other way the world is going to see the supreme glory of Christ today except that we break free from the "disneyland" of America and begin to live lifestyles of missionary sacrifice that looks to the world like our treasure is in heaven and not on earth. It's the only way!"

"He paid His life for our salvation. We join Him in that suffering to display that nature of it."





Monday, August 16, 2010

Dancing in the Minefields

Tuesday, August 10, 2010

Loving our children - an excellent message



I just finished listening to this message by Carolyn Mahaney, and it was such an encouraging "shot in the arm" for me - just what I've been needing to hear. According to Titus 2, we as women are required to love our children... and Mrs. Mahaney points out that scripture is commanding older women to teach the younger women to love their children with a warm and tender affection.

I don't know about anyone else, but that hits me pretty hard... Sacrificially give up my desires for the good of my children? Check. Spend every moment of their waking hours tending to and training them? Check. Pare down my beauty routine to the bare minimum so I have extra time to spend on kid stuff? Check. Do it all in a spirit of warm, tender affection?.... er... not so much. If, like myself, you struggle with simply loving and cherishing your children and your time with them - this message will renew your vision, refresh your purpose, and be a healing balm to your spirit.

And just to whet your appetite, here are some highlights that I jotted down from the message:



"It isn't rare to meet a woman who sacrifices for her children and daily lays down her life FOR her children. Women are good at that kind of love.
However, it is more uncommon to meet a woman who thoroughly enjoys her children, takes pleasure in her children, loves being a mother, and relates to them with a warm tender affection."


"Because of the reality of indwelling sin in our hearts, we will sin against our children, yet the comforting thing is that God's grace is big enough to cover the effect of our sin on the lives of our children. There is no situation too horrible that was created by our sin that He can't redeem it for our good and for His glory."


"Asking one anothers forgiveness should be a regular occurance in our homes because when you have a group of sinners living together 24 hours a day 365 days a year there are bound to be plenty of opportunities for that to happen."


"How we think about our children will sooner or later determine what we say and what we do.If we primarily think of them as work and sacrifice we will convey that in our speech and in our actions. If we are thinking about children as a gift, a reward, a blessing; it will make the work and sacrifice a joyful experience rather than a burden."


"After our relationship with Christ and with our husbands, our children should know that there is no one we prize more than them.This should be evident in our speech, our attitude, and our behavior - when they approach me do they get my full attention and interest or do they feel like an interruption?"


"Ways we can show our children that we prize and cherish them:
Faithful intercession - there is an annointing that we have as wives and mothers to pray for our children. no one else can pray for them more intelligently and compassionately.
Sympathetic understanding - our children need us to comfort them, encourage them, understand them.
Attentive listening - give them our full attention, don't interrupt, respond graciously, remain attentive
Rapt interest in their thoughts, feelings, and experiences
Enthusiastic encouragement - consistently encourage them with evidences of grace that we see in their lives
Physical affection and verbal communications of love - should be happening ALL the time in our homes."


"Are we thoroughly enjoying our children RIGHT NOW at whatever age they may be and whatever phase they may be going through, or we looking forward to when they will be older or outgrow this present phase?"

"Are we truly delighting in motherhood or are we biding our time longing for the day when we can move on to something 'more significant'?"


"Given the sacrifice and hard work that accompanies motherhood its not uncommon to grow weary, to lose our joy, and to come up short in having vision for this call.
If you're not enjoying your children, if you're lacking vision for your role as a mother; may I appeal to you to take whatever measure is necessary to change?
Maybe like me you need to start with repentance. And then I would encourage you to do a study in God's Word. I would encourage you to read some good books on this subject, and even find a mature woman who obviously enjoys her role as a mother to encourage you and to pray for you and to hold you accountable during this season of your life... Because it's so important that we maintain vision for our role as mothers."


"We need to enjoy the help of the Holy Spirit in our mothering task.
It's my job to seek to impart truth, but I can't reveal truth... only the Holy Spirit can reveal truth.
It is my job to point out sin and require obedience, but I can't bring conviction of sin - only the Holy Spirit can convict of sin.
It's my job to share the gospel with my children, but I can't reveal the gospel to my children - only the Holy Spirit can reveal the truth of the gospel.
We can plant and we can water in the lives of our children, but we cannot make them to grow - only the Holy Spirit can do that.
Our problem, or the spoiler of joy for mothers, is that we tend to depend upon our planting and our watering rather than the Lord.
I cannot accomplish anything of a spiritual and eternal value in the lives of my children apart from the work of the Holy Spirit in their lives. Knowing that doesn't minimize my role - it just alleviates a whole lot of pressure that God never meant for me to carry.
I still need to build my house with wisdom as Proverbs 14:1 speaks of. I need to do all I can to advocate Godly character, I need to make every effort to create an environment that encourages a passion for God. I need to hem them in with righteousness, if you will, but ultimately it is the Holy Spirit who will reveal truth and ignite passion.
I simply need to enjoy His work in their lives."

Friday, August 06, 2010

A Little Catching Up, Part 2

After the NCFIC conference, we packed and cleaned and geared up for the 2-day drive to San Antonio. (google maps would put it at almost 17 hours... but we Weathers always seem to take a little longer. *grin*) We rented a 15 passenger van, packed in 13 people + luggage, and set off! We set our plans to get to San Antonio on Wednesday night so that we would have time to sight-see a little on Thursday before the Baby Conference began. Thursday morning we met up with Mr. Bill Potter to take a tour of the Menger Hotel. (Mr. Potter is a brilliant historian, and if you ever get the chance to listen to any of his lectures, or attend any of his tours.... I HIGHLY recommend it!!)







Learning time with Daddy


Reading about the infamous axe-wielding Carrie Nation



Mr. Potter giving us the story behind Teddy Roosevelt's Rough Riders






Sisters


William loved the Kings X Store, with all of the toy soldiers


Stephanie dear


Rosie dear


Sisters on the riverwalk










Daddy's darling




Yummy food!



Cutie Pie






The Baby Conference was truly an amazing experience... If you can possibly order the audio of it, please do... there was so much wonderful information and so many exceptional talks! The first night, Mr. Botkin gave an excellent talk on embryology... he even did some sculpting, which was a delight to see!
Anna's didn't let me get many pictures or notes during the conference, but I highly enjoyed every moment of it! I was able to take notes during the Large Family Logistics talk, which I hope to share at some point.



On our return trip, we were +1, making a total of 14 travelers... and what a trip it was! :)

Return trips are always.... long. :) Anna was at her breaking point, and William wasn't his usual jolly self. Davina got carsick, and we were pretty pressed for time as Isaac had to catch a flight that night to leave for business. At some point into the second day of return travel, we stopped at a run-down gas station and everyone was feeling a little travel-worn... upon our return to the car, we noticed the above billboard and all said... "IT COULD BE WORSE!!"



Long car trips make for excellent daddy-daughter snuggle time!



Me and my girlies



Sisters are the best friends you can ever have!



Fishy-face fun in the back seat






Last week I went to dinner with some dear friends, one of whom is just about to embark on an amazing new adventure! (I'm seriously going to miss you, Maggie!!)


The beginning of this week was spent at my mom and dad's house, where we went blueberry picking! We now have some dried blueberries on the counter, and some lovely blueberries in the freezer... summertime fruit truly is lovely!
Rosie - the best little berry picker!



"See, mommy! Blueberry!!"


My little koala


She kept grabbing branches... :)






Nephew and Uncle... small generation gaps are FUN!




The whole gang...
Matt, Stephanie, Mercy, Hannah, David, Anna, Christie, Heather, Philip, Esther,
William, Davina, Josiah, Davina, Noah


Little Miss Beautiful Eyes,
Mercy Jael Franseen



So, life is pretty well back to "normal" for now... though we're planning to go to the Civil War tour that Bill Potter is doing in Tennessee! Anybody else planning to attend? I'm looking forward to learning a LOT!

IndoctriNation - the film

You've gotta watch this!!

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This film is going to be amazing! Be a part of helping make an impact by buying a mile, buying a backstage pass, or donating. The men behind this film are amazing men with many talents, but above all - a passion for Christ and for the family. This film promises to be a remarkable tool that can be used to strengthen families, churches, and communities across the world.

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